Mariana was very happy to win the gift of a tea set of blue. The next day, Julia, his girlfriend, came very early to invite her to play. Mariana could not go out with her mother since that morning.
Julia then asked Mariana to lend him his tea set for her to play alone in the garden of the building in which they lived.
She would not give his new gift but at the insistence of her friend decided to emphasize the care of the toy so special.
Upon returning from the trip, Mariana was shocked to see her tea set on the floor. Also missing some cups and the tray was broken.
Mariana crying and very upset with her mother vented mom what do you see Julia made me? I gave him my toy; she neglected and left everything on the floor.
Totally uncontrolled Mariana wanted to go to Julia's house to ask for explanations, but his mother affectionately said, "Daughter, do you remember that day when you left with your new white dress and a car splattered with mud spent? When you reach wanted house immediately wash your grandmother dressed but did not leave, do you remember what you said your grandmother? "
She said she had to let the mud dry, because then it would be easier to remove.
That's daughter, anger is the same, let dry first anger, and then it is much easier to solve everything.
Mariana did not understand very well, but decided to follow the advice of his mother and went to see the TV.
Julia then asked Mariana to lend him his tea set for her to play alone in the garden of the building in which they lived.
She would not give his new gift but at the insistence of her friend decided to emphasize the care of the toy so special.
Upon returning from the trip, Mariana was shocked to see her tea set on the floor. Also missing some cups and the tray was broken.
Mariana crying and very upset with her mother vented mom what do you see Julia made me? I gave him my toy; she neglected and left everything on the floor.
Totally uncontrolled Mariana wanted to go to Julia's house to ask for explanations, but his mother affectionately said, "Daughter, do you remember that day when you left with your new white dress and a car splattered with mud spent? When you reach wanted house immediately wash your grandmother dressed but did not leave, do you remember what you said your grandmother? "
She said she had to let the mud dry, because then it would be easier to remove.
That's daughter, anger is the same, let dry first anger, and then it is much easier to solve everything.
Mariana did not understand very well, but decided to follow the advice of his mother and went to see the TV.
A while later rang the doorbell. It was Julia, with a box in his hands and without preamble said, "Mariana, remember the spoiled child of the other street, which often annoys us? He came to play with me and not let him because I thought you would not care tea set, but he became angry and destroyed the gift you've given me. When I told my mother she was worried I buy another just like for you. Hope you're not mad at me. It was not my fault! "
No problem said Mariana, my anger and dried!
And giving a hug to his friend took her hand and led her to her room to tell the story of the new dress she had been soiled with mud.
Never feel anger reactions while. Anger blinds us and prevents us from seeing things as they really are. This will avoid committing injustices and earn the respect of others for your position correctly measured and compared to a difficult situation.
Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry, for anger rests in the bosom of fools.(Ecclesiastes 7:9)
Be angry and sin not: let not the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil. (Ephesians 4:26-27)
Always keep in mind: Leave the rage to dry ...
God bless you abundantly.
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