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Several times I've met people who say
"I want change, want to be different, I want to help me God" and so on.
But you know something; just lay on the "want".
It happens to everyone the same, some do have the desire and do change.
But what happens when you do not change, I'll tell you one of those people said, "I want to help, so help me God, BUT NO ONE IS COMING TO HELP."
Now if we look is easy to see where its error.
She waits for someone to help, someone interested in her, I think that when one of us has problems, the first thing is to seek help, do not expect someone to approach us and while DO NOTHING.
Not so, if anyone has problems must first seek God's help and clear that he will help because it is very kind, he says: "Call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me" (Psalm 50:15)
When people ask to me for help, not knowing what to do, tell them to seek God first and then start to change habits that do not please God.
Surely they will say: Who are you to help them?
Well I also had problems, I sought refuge in God and He did not abandon me, but I did not know what to do to please God, then several men and women of God told me how, if they told me. Nobody made the changes in me, I did it alone.
I am very grateful to everyone who took the time to listen and guide me.
Behind me however, was God and people, but who was I made the decision, I also remain the same but no, I decided to be different.
After the person that I discuss in the beginning I said I wanted someone to help her, I offered, talk to her, listened and finally the east and ... nothing happened.
She was unchanged, irrespective of interest without doing anything, not trying to be a new person. I told God, no one can help someone who does not want to help themselves (o), which strives for change, to be pleasing to God.
Nobody forces you to be different, that's a decision that's up to us to choose, even God force you, He expects you want with your entire heart meet Him, but you have to open your heart and believe me no one forces you to do that, you have to choose.
I also received help and that's why I like to share my experiences with you.
If you want change, you will change alone (a), may guide you how to do it but you're the one who decides whether to obey or not.
Want to change your character begins to control it, maybe not at first easy, but that should not discourage you, nothing is impossible if you think you do, you want to avoid doing things that you know are bad, stay away from them, any change brings with a sacrifice, but you have to follow, the reward is much better than you think and see that you will feel much better than before.
If in your heart a desire to change what you are now for the better, for someone pleasant to the eyes of God, starting now, nobody will make that change for you, just you.
If you seek help, you will be happy, but you choose between be brave or stay in the same situation any longer.
No one would fight a battle that belongs to you.
God Bless.
